From Roommates to Soulmates in Midlife Marriage

Episode Title: From Roommates to Soulmates
Podcast: Midlife Marriage Mastery with Lisa Kneller

🌿 Episode Overview

Do you ever feel like your marriage has lost its spark? Like you and your partner are sharing a home but not a heart? In this episode, Lisa Kneller dives deep into why so many couples drift from connection to coexistence—and, more importantly, how to reignite intimacy, friendship, and love.

Through real insight and practical wisdom, you’ll learn how to move from living parallel lives to rediscovering the passion and purpose that first brought you together.

💫 What You’ll Learn

• How the drift begins — from the early excitement to the quiet disconnection of daily routines.

• The real reasons couples become “roommates” — emotional unawareness, unresolved conflict, busyness, and neglect of self.

• The cost of waiting too long — why couples wait an average of six years before seeking help and how that time can deepen the divide.

• The pain of disconnection — how loneliness can exist even when you’re not alone.

• How to rebuild closeness and passion — with awareness, emotional honesty, and intentional effort.

• The mindset shift — from “fixing your partner” to leading with love and taking responsibility for your own energy and presence.

💔 Reflection Moment

Ask yourself these questions:

1. Have I become more of a manager than a lover in my marriage?

2. When was the last time I felt truly seen, touched, or appreciated?

3. Am I willing to take the first step toward reconnection?

4. What do I really want my marriage to feel like?

As Lisa reminds us, “You have to keep a finger on the pulse of your relationship.” Awareness is the first step toward reconnection.

✨ Key Quote

“Disconnection isn’t the end of your story—it’s an invitation to rewrite it.”

📘 Resources Mentioned

• The Inner Work of Love: 10 Understandings for Lasting Relationships — available now on Amazon.

• Free resources for deeper connection: lisaknellercoaching.com/freestuff

• Join Lisa’s Marriage Empowerment Series: lisaknellercoaching.com/marriage-empowerment

• Schedule a Free Discovery Call: lisaknellercoaching.com

💌 Episode CTA

If your marriage feels more like a partnership of convenience than a union of hearts, don’t wait six years to make a change. Transformation begins with awareness and a single decision to reconnect.

Take the next step—download a free resource, join the Marriage Empowerment Series, or book a Free Discovery Call today.
Together, let’s reignite the love, intimacy, and joy you deserve.