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A Little About Me

As a marriage and relationship coach for women in midlife, I am passionate about helping women get solid in their identity and become leaders within the relationship. 

 

For most of my adult life, I’ve been married.

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Nearly 40 years.

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And while I’m deeply grateful for my marriage, I want to be clear about something:

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It hasn’t been perfect.
And neither have I.

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Like most long-term marriages, we’ve moved through seasons of closeness and distance, ease and effort, connection and confusion.

 

What I learned along the way is this:

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Lasting love isn’t created by luck or perfection.
It’s created by emotional maturity, self-awareness, and intentional growth.

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That realization changed everything—for me personally, and eventually, for the women I now coach.

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WHY I DO THIS WORK

I work with women because women often carry the emotional weight of the relationship.

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They are the ones thinking, reflecting, wondering, hoping.

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Yet many feel powerless to create change unless their partner changes first.

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I don’t believe that’s true.

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I’ve seen—again and again—that when one woman becomes emotionally confident, grounded, and self-led, the entire relationship dynamic begins to shift.

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That’s where my work begins.

MY APPROACH: IDENTITY COMES FIRST

I don’t teach women how to manage their husbands.

I help women master their inner world.

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My coaching is identity-based, meaning we focus on:

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  • Emotional awareness

  • Self-trust

  • Thought patterns

  • Communication from clarity

  • Loving boundaries

  • Self-leadership in love
     

When you change how you show up—how you think, feel, and lead yourself—your relationship responds.

 

This isn’t about control.

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It’s about becoming.

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT

This work is not therapy.


It’s not marriage counseling.


And it’s not about rehashing the past.

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It’s coaching for women who want to grow forward.

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Women who want to feel:
 

  • Calm instead of reactive

  • Confident instead of uncertain

  • Connected instead of lonely

  • Proud of how they show up
     

Without blaming their partner.

Without losing themselves.

WHO I WORK WITH

I work primarily with midlife women who:
 

  • Are in long-term marriages

  • Love their husbands but feel disconnected

  • Aren’t ready to leave, but aren’t fulfilled staying the same

  • Want emotional clarity and confidence

  • Are open to personal growth
     

You don’t need to be in crisis.
 

You just need to be ready to grow.

A Little More About Me

I’m a marriage coach, author, speaker, and the host of the Midlife Marriage Mastery Podcast.

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My work blends real-life marriage experience with proven coaching frameworks, emotional intelligence, and spiritual grounding. I bring both compassion and clarity into every conversation.

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Most importantly, I believe women are capable of creating powerful change—starting within themselves.

An Invitation

If something here resonates, I invite you to take the next step.

You don’t need to have everything figured out.
You just need a willingness to begin.

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