Taking a Leadership Role in Marriage
🎙️ Episode #2: Taking a Leadership Role in Marriage
**Podcast:** Midlife Marriage Mastery **Host:** Lisa Kneller, Marriage & Relationship Coach for Midlife and Empty-Nesting Women -
💡Episode Summary What if the greatest leader your marriage needs right now is *you*? In this episode, Lisa Kneller explores what it truly means to take a leadership role in your marriage — not through control or hierarchy, but through *vision, influence, and example.* As women, we often lead in every other area of life — work, community, and family — yet forget that the same clarity and intention can transform our most sacred relationship.
This episode empowers you to step into your natural power as a creator of connection, joy, and peace in your marriage. Lisa shares five core ideas to help you embody loving leadership, model emotional maturity, and lead yourself first so you can influence your relationship from a place of strength and love. ---
🪞 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
1. **Redefining Leadership in Marriage** – Leadership isn’t dominance; it’s influence through vision and example. Learn how to set the emotional tone in your relationship with compassion, gratitude, and presence.
2. **The Power of Vision** – Create a shared vision for your marriage by asking deeper questions about what you both truly need and desire.
3. **Leading Without Controlling** – Discover the difference between guiding and micromanaging, and how to model love through calm communication, appreciation, and intentional connection.
4. **How to Lead Yourself First** – Strengthen your inner foundation through stillness, prayer, journaling, and thought awareness so you can radiate peace and stability.
5. **Practical Reflection** – Reflect on where you’ve been waiting for your partner to lead and how you can instead lead with more love in communication, affection, or appreciation. -
📊 Why This Matters When we wait for our partner to change, we give away our power. When we lead with love, we set a new tone that invites transformation. Leadership in marriage begins with *self-leadership* — aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with the kind of relationship you want to create. As Lisa reminds us: > “We lead through our being, not just our doing.”
🧭 Key Takeaway You have the ability to instigate powerful and positive change in your marriage — not by forcing it, but by embodying the qualities of love and vision you wish to see.
🔗 Mentioned in This Episode - **Free Resources:** lisaknellercoaching.com/freestuff (https://www.lisaknellercoaching.com/freestuff)
Tools and guides to help you cultivate connection and self-awareness in your marriage. -
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